The woman I personally know for some time now, reveals what drives women to not only commit an adultery but to turn it into a lifestyle. You’ll understand how little it takes to share your wife with two, three or even more men.
She’s the wife. She’s the mother next door. Everybody loves her. It seems that the woman is a prime example of a loving, caring and devoted wife.
Until you dig a bit deeper…
Managing private and professional to suit each other can sometimes be unbearable if not even impossible. This is because of two opposing points of view:
- What we men consider to be important, women may — and in most cases will — find totally irrelevant.
The story of the millions out there
Elena is a successful entrepreneur who started her business from the scratch in the age of 25 along with her 10 years older husband.
Over the course of time, they managed to expand from a simple bookkeeping office to a full-scale business that now runs the accounts of more than 3000 clients. As someone acquainted with the whole situation, I managed to arrange a unique interview with Elena, the “cheating wife.”
Q: Hey, Elena, nice to meet you and thank you for this unique opportunity.
“Well, I had my share of doubts, but at the end, if it will help someone to better understand the marriage in this fast-paced world, it is worth it.”
Q: When we spoke earlier, discussing the possibility of an interview, you said, and I quote: “I’m in a hell of being the second woman to everybody, so I decided to make the most out of it.” What did you mean by that?
“It’s a bit too late to act innocent now so I’ll be straightforward. What it meant was that, at this point in time, I’m involved in five different emotional and sexual relationships with the people I know for my entire life without counting the occasional sex adventures.
Some of them are our (hers and husband’s) very close friends. As far as I know, my husband has no knowledge of it. He is maybe suspicious, but during the time I became a true expert in covering my tracks [smiling]. What started as a one-night stand a couple of years ago, has now transformed into a lifestyle that acts as a drug trip.”
Q: A “drug trip”?
“Well, to better explain we have to move back when it happened for the very first time. You have to understand that I was in a devoted, faithful relationship and had never cheated on my husband before that.
We’ve been living together for about 10 years when I “slipped” for the first time [making faces].
It happened at the party one of our business partners had organized. By then, I already felt miserable about my marriage and life in general. It was like living in a trap, in a cage, rolling on a coaster without any chance of getting out. On top of everything, my son got really hurt in a bike accident and he needed the constant care. I can’t say that my husband didn’t help with it, but it seemed like everything was on my back.
I remember speaking with the female colleague of mine when I crossed eyes with the handsome man who was, at the same time, one of our best clients. I caught myself looking at him with totally different eyes. Something was awakening deep inside of me.
While I was listening to her, all I could think about was having him on top of me, behind me, between my legs. Not that it doesn’t happen from time to time when a woman sees some good-looking guy in a moment of total arousal, but this was something different. Something indescribable and almost impossible to block.
Half an hour later we were doing it like two rabbits in a storage room. I didn’t even care if it’s locked. And to be perfectly honest: he fucked my brains out in a matter of minutes. I couldn’t walk. My legs were shaking from the sensation of the powerful orgasm I just had and the mixed feelings of shame and pride. I’m still not sure what it was.
But, as soon as the moment had passed, I got scared. I was afraid that someone saw us.
I remember entering our home at 2 am, praying to all gods that my husband firmly sleeps. Call it a destiny or whatever you like, he slept like a baby and didn’t even realize that I’m in the bed.
I couldn’t sleep that night. All I could think was those brief few minutes in that storage room.
When I got up from the bed next morning, after my husband left to work, I had difficulties looking at my image in a mirror. I know it sounds like a cliché but it is like that. It’s not a small thing to do what I did considering my private and professional situation.”
Q: So what happened that day? Did you normally go to work or?
No. For the next few days, I was pretending to be sick and didn’t leave the vicinity of my home.
Q: How long did it take to get the courage and face the reality?[smiling out loud) Well…a woman’s mind works a bit different than you might think. Since there weren’t any indications that my husband is suspecting something, I was up on my feet, ready to live and work. But, the moment I closed the doors behind me and left to work that day, I felt differently. Something clicked.
Regardless, for the next few months, I was again a devoted and faithful wife, running my part of the business, taking care of my son and dealing with the everyday life.
But, as the time went by, I caught myself frequently thinking about that one-night stand. It came to the point when I had to disappear for a moment just to relieve myself from the tension if you know what I meant. [Yeah, I do!]
And again, destiny did its part. A few months later, I ran into my storage-room stranger in the park. I was there to get some fresh air and he was walking some big dog. My knees started shivering and I almost lost the ground under my feet. I knew I had to have him as soon as possible. I had sex with my husband in a meanwhile, of course, but it couldn’t match that feeling.
Two days later we ended up in his apartment, having sex all night long.”
Q: What did your husband think about your whereabouts?
“The nature of our business provided with tons of possible excuses and it was usual for one of us to go on a business trip, conference or seminar in that particular case [winked at me and smiled].”
Q: Was it then when it gained a “momentum”?
“I wouldn’t call it a ‘momentum’. It’s a rush. You know, forbidden fruit and all that stuff. You have two distinct sensations that act together and drive you. It’s “illegal” [making the quotation marks with her fingers] and hot at the same time. The ultimate adrenaline rush. It’s like when you guys are racing or hunting. Well…I had “illegal” sex at least once every two weeks.”
Q: And all that simply because you felt neglected by your husband?
“That was the trigger, I suppose. Yes, I felt neglected. However, the breaking point was the moment when I felt indifferent. You know, we would fight about it at first, but that slowly grew into the state of total apathy.”
Q: I trust you are expecting this question. Why are you still living with your husband?
“I’m not sure to be perfectly honest. Maybe it’s a habit. It is rather complicated because of the entire situation with my son. I’m not sure how he would handle it. On top of that, we have a business together. It’s not that easy.”
Q: You think it might have something to do with the fear of losing that “high” you are experiencing now?
“[eyes wide opened accompanied by a subtle, sexy smile] Yeah, that might also be a factor. I developed a habit living the way I do now. I don’t know what would happen if I would lose that. Maybe I would feel miserable again. Who knows.”
Q: Thank you for your time, Elena, and for the openness. Do you have something to share with our readers until we meet again?
“Well, the message is simple: you don’t look at the world same as your partner. And as much as you think that you have it under your control, it takes only so little to share your wife with five other men without even knowing it.
To avoid that, never take your partner for granted. Make the additional effort or be a man and admit it that you are no longer capable of running the marriage and the business. One of those will have to be abandoned. That is something my husband should’ve done a long time ago. After all, he is a man.”
I met with this sexy woman a few days later. Let’s just say that I had to keep my legs crossed from the moment I saw her approaching that summer Wednesday afternoon.
But before we reveal one of the most erotic interviews I ever did, ask yourself can you recognize those hidden cues of adultery?
If you can’t, check the second part of our interview with Elena.