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Confessions of an Adult Entertainer – “I Can Make My Pussy Squirt and Gush”

While there is countless debate around the world about this very topic – I am one of the few women who can “gush” and squirt. Yeah, I said it. I am not a porn star. I do not use any sort of aid. I do not pee. But when I’m having fun, clear liquid can damn-near drown a man—if he knows what he’s doing.

When I was younger, I was never one of those women; in fact, it was after a rather fun solo-session that I realized I was able to have this happen. In fact, it happened rather by accident. But rather than talk about why it was the best orgasm I’ve ever had, I’m going to tell you how to get your girlfriend to quirt too – and answer a few of your most popular questions too.

 Does a Girl Just Pee When She Squirts?

Short answer, no squirt and pee are very different things. If you’re with a squirter, it’s important to understand that while this comes from the same urethra opening, the liquid that comes out during stimulation is clear (not yellow) and smells and tastes substantially different than urine.

Can All Women Squirt?

Most can in fact squirt – if they’re comfortable enough to do so. For most women, the squirting sensation is that of embarrassment. That’s because we have been taught that men (not women) are the ones who make a mess in the bedroom. If a woman feels truly comfortable with her partner, she is more likely to be relaxed and at ease over any “mess” that happens – which can be enough to send her over the edge.

How Much is There?

The amount of juice can vary; depending on stimulation and depending on the amount the body produces. On average, a woman can squirt between a small dribble and 4-5 tablespoons per session. This can either trickle out slowly (resulting in a wet spot) or it can shoot out forcefully, resulting in a stream. Many times, the trickle will happen first, before a woman feels comfortable with the sensation and allows it to happen (instead of trying to hold it in).

How Can I Get My Girlfriend to Squirt?

Truthfully, it’s probably best if she tries to make it happen without you there for the first few times. That’s because when you’re first trying to make the juices flow, it’s impossible to be comfortable with an audience – even if that person is you. On top of that, many women want to feel confident it’s not (which it won’t be) in fact, urine when it happens – before embarrassing themselves further.

How Do I Try to Help Her Squirt?

Generally speaking, squirting starts with a deep g-spot orgasm. To help your girlfriend along, it’s important to focus on her internal pleasure (although some, myself included, can squirt with clitoral stimulation). Use two fingers inside her opening and locate a fleshy mound approximately 3 inches inside her vagina. When you’ve found this, press your fingers into it gently – and make a ‘come here’ motion with your fingers. You’ll want to apply a decent amount of pressure when you’re doing this – adding a faster motion to help create arousal. If you’re feeling adventurous, you can also use your mouth to stimulate her clit while you do this (increasing the intensity) or purchase a g-spot toy that will help you find the right spot.

What Happens When She Orgasms?

Whatever you do – if you’re trying to make her squirt or gush, do NOT stop doing what you’re doing. Many times a woman will feel like she has to “pee” when she is getting close to squirting. Reassure her that this isn’t what’s happening – it’s her body wanting to release. Tell her to relax and let go of the feeling – and watch her squirt!

Will it Happen Every Time She Orgasms?

Every woman has the ability to suppress the squirting (unless that sensation is just too intense)—which makes things easier in the event that you want to have a quickie or public romp. That being said, if you take your time and work to get her going—she realistically could squirt more often than not.

Can Guys Really Drink it?

In my adult entertaining, I’ve had guys ask me to squirt in their mouths, squirt into bottles, squirt through panties and more. It is most definitely possible to drink it – so by all means feel free to try. A word of caution, if your girlfriend happens to be face sitting and squirts, you may end up having difficulty breathing, especially if she’s a gusher in waves… but what a way to go, am I right?

 When is a Girl Most Likely to Squirt?

A woman is more likely to squirt if she’s 100% relaxed, focused on the pleasure and enjoying what you’re doing. It’s also true that a woman is more likely to squirt on her second (or third) orgasm, as getting off seems to relax the body further. If you’re not sure you can physically handle two or three rounds, invest in a high quality toy to use instead.

Is it Messy? How wet can it get?

Obviously the amount of liquid depends on each person; especially if she’s not comfortable in letting it all “cum” out. That being said, I’ve had a man drink it from a cup; soak through a comforter, mattress and clothing too. If you’re going to start experimenting with squirting or gushing, make sure that you lay down a few towels, blankets or even a plastic shower curtain.

 

Not only will the shower curtain catch the juice, you’ll also be a witness that a woman who squirts creates a clear, silky substance (like watered down lube) – it is not yellow. You’ll also be able to tell that the colour is clear instead of yellow or pastel yellow. If for whatever reason you’re feeling a little apprehensive – consider trying it in the bathtub first.

 

 

 

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