We’ll call it Universe or laws of the universe but you can call it whatever you like but it doesn’t change the fact that most of your misfortune is caused by you directly. It didn’t have anything to do with luck, a higher force or a conspiracy – it was the result of your action and reaction.
There are three cosmic rules (laws) that you have to understand and obey to if you ever want to achieve any level of success. So far, your actions were not in accordance with any of these three.
First and most important is causal relationships of things. Every action will cause its counter reaction. It is the most important constant in physics and every law of physics is based on it.
Second one is the law of attraction. You’ve heard about it already but do you really understand it? It’s simple. If you want shit, shit you’ll receive. Plain and simple. Is it a bit easier for you to understand now why nothing good is happening to you no matter how hard do you work?
It’s because you are focused on negative aspects all the time. That causes you to surround yourself with people who think the same way you do. As a result, shit expands and you not even aware of it.
You need ultimate proof for this? Some of the worst winters human kind had experienced occurred during the major arm conflicts (World Wars). You think it’s coincidental that nature is trying to cool us off? Check the data and see it for yourself.
But you don’t have to move a step from your closest social environment to experience the devastating effect or wrong wishes. Test it. For a while just listen to the people around you. You’ll see that they all share common things such as poor balance on bank account, poverty, health issues, depression, anxiety, they all blame someone else, complain and justify their situation in some irrational ways.
The bottom line: think of risk and you’ll never see the opportunity. Think of opportunity and risk will become a challenge that can be predicted, calculated and bypassed.
That leads us to the third and probably the most important rule of the Universe, the law of intention.
This is even simpler but at the same time, due to its simplicity, it can potentially wreak havoc on people’s lives. It states: what you focus on expands. Think small, you’ll receive even less. Think big and there are no limits.
You see, the Universe is all into giving but it does require you to learn how to receive and how to handle the received. For instance, if you are a middle class man it is to presume that you use the term “comfortable” quite often. You and your wife live a “comfortable” life. You are “comfortable” with the things right as they are now. But what you don’t know is that you will never move from that “comfortable” zone no matter what you do until you change the way you are thinking.
How about you stop using the term “comfortable” and start using the terms “abundance”, “wealth” and “rich”. Just try it. No harm in doing that. But be persistent. In no time you will see how your perception of the life is changing. Soon you will be more “comfortable” thinking big and start learning everything that can get you on a trajectory of personal and professional growth.
Of course, small steps are what counts. As it has been said, you have to learn how to handle it. For instance, if you win $23,768,986.89 in the lottery, how long do you think it will last? Naturally your answer is forever, same as what every lottery winner answers. And yet, 98 percent of all major lottery winners lose all of their money and end up poor in a matter of three years. How do you rationalize that fact?
Easy. They don’t know how to handle that large sum of money because they never made an effort to learn this skill while they had only few bucks. You have to intend to learn how to handle something big with the same intensity as intend to have it. It’s causal relationship of the things that permeates both the law of attraction and law of intention.
If you don’t want it, you won’t get it. If you want it, you will get it but it won’t last long if you don’t know how to do it. Understanding is the key of integrity and integrity is the primary condition that has the potential to lead you to success.
So, how do you want to play the game of life? Do you want to think small and focus on negative or to focus on positive and think big?