In the beginning there was only a sex based on raw attraction. Then, you noticed how she likes to spend some time in a romantic hug with you inside of her but not moving at all. You are kissing and cuddling but everything seems to be in slow motion. You are enjoying it, no question about it. And those are the moments of intensive orgasms also, but is it really all she needs as they claim? Romance and gentleness?
Being her personal kitten from time to time is fine, but if you keep pushing it, acting like a little girl who is in love at all times, never complaining and always on “yes dear” program – your ass will be fried sooner than you think.
Regardless of their claims, woman seeks for protector. For someone who is capable of providing her with the essential level of security. She’s programmed that way.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that you have to be a mean bastard to her or keep pulling that macho bullshit common for those who are not secure about themselves.
True, she is expecting perfection and that just doesn’t exist. Nothing you can do about it except providing her with a few moments of tenderness but that comes down to your willingness to accompany her when she is picking the right shoes for the party and listening to her everyday problems.
And most important thing of all: pay the fucking attention on her house works.
If you praise her achievements regarding her efforts to keep the place clean and you and kids fed, she will be a great person to live with. Avoid it and…well…if you weren’t aware of it up until now, it’s the most common cause of sudden and totally uncalled bursts of “tenderness” from her behalf where she’s giving you a piece of her mind and you are staring at her like a cow trying to figure out what are hell is going on right now.
That’s basically all you need to do to keep her happy, along with regular and steady stream of orgasms of course. The absence of this behavior at men is causing her to start reading and listening romantic bullshit and to start dreaming about the guy who is more like a girl than a man. And if she finds one, you can bet your ass that he will become her best girlfriend. But, he has the same armory as you do so be aware of the moment of acute attraction between two of them.
It’s not something she’s looking for but set of circumstances could potentially lead her in bed with him while in the same time that guy would never stand a chance at her. It’s just a moment of weakness caused by your recklessness and lack or total absence of understanding her problems.
Yeah, life is tough and you have to work your ass for the entire day to put some food on the table but the truth is: she doesn’t give a fuck about it when it’s about her. Hungry or not, all she wants is you to pay attention on her. That’s it. As soon as she feels neglected, case is closed and she’s on a lookout for some pussy in a body of a man. To make things even worse, you have a bunch of guys who are aware of this and are on a constant recon, searching for these women to exploit her moments of weakness.
And it’s all your fault dumbass.
Back to the main subject. Under the presumption that you are keep noticing how great job she’s doing at home and possibly at work, that’s enough for her. Other than that, she wants her protector. Need a proof for that?
If two of you are walking through the crowd and somebody, no matter who it might be, accidentally kicks her in a shoulder and you don’t react in any way, do you feel disturbance in a force? Does she seem a bit different towards you? On the other hand if you do react (and more aggressive the better), she will blush and look at you with that same look when you know you’re gonna get some. And she will brag about that insignificant incident for days. Sex that night will be awesome to say the least.
It’s because literotica is great and they totally dig that crap but in essence, display of raw power and superiority will make her horny like nothing else.
So, do they really want some male bitch? No. Just a bit of understanding from the one she chose for herself.