Women Claim This To Be The Worst Turn offs
We men sometimes thinks we are the best lover ever – but at the same time (unknowingly) kill the heat and arousement with these sexual turn offs.
While some things can pass and are perceived as the honest mistake or childish play, some make them wanna puke. Let’s start with these more bening stuff we like to practice when alone in a dark with the woman.
Turn off #1 – Taking dirty just when she’s having the best time
The fact that we are doing this just to arouse ourselves a bit more is well-known to women. And while she won’t hold it against you for the most of the time, if you “pick” the moment when she’s trully enjoying the sex, nothing would thrill her more than to shoot you on the spot.
If you can’t keep your mouth shut during the sex (this doesn’t include the sounds of pleasure of course), then something is wrong. You’re not getting enough stimuli from the standard sexual activity. This is BIG one of the sexual turn offs.
Turn off #2 – Sticking to the one and the same sex position like a fly to a duct tape
Yes, we all appreciate some speficic position and if the other party shares our enthusiasm, then sex will be a wonderful experience for years to come. But even that doesn’t mean that we should walk the same route over and over again. It becomes fucking boring.
Turn off #3 – Changing positions like you wanna try it all in less than 2 minutes
This shit won’t fly either. Woman need her time to relax and totally let go. Sudden and frequent “changes” are resetting her mind, forcing her to get there again almost from square one.
Turn off #4 – Inadequate foreplay of total absence of it
It may work for some quickie in public but that shit won’t fly for any longer period of time. She needs to be properly prepped. On those few rare occassions when you can catch her in that particular super horny mood, you can bypass this rule but for the most part, she’s like diesel in Siberia.
Turn off #5 – Being pretty or having a big dick isn’t always enough
Sure she’ll get all wet and aroused when she sees the 10-incher, but that enthusiasm will disappear shortly after she realized that you’re lazy ass who doesn’t want to make any effort.
Turn off #6 – Turning on the other side or dressing up immediately after having sex with her
Yeah we tend to fall asleep due to serotonin and endorphins activities but little effort in this direction will do wonders. Even if you’re in a long lasting relationship, don’t relax too much. Stay awake and don’t storm away. It will feel like you just paid for sex.
And finally, the one thing they hate most is…
One of the seual turn offs that a VERY few men are aware off is this last one….. READ CAREFULLY…. When you start pushing her head down to give her a “subtle” signal that she should blow your dick. They don’t appreciate it because it’s humiliating for them. We, on the other hand, were watching too much porn. But the reason they put it in porn is because we genuinely love it. We love to dominate. So pushing her head down while knowing how humiliating that is for her is in fact turning us on! Too bad the feeling isn’t mutual, right?
And then, after you’ve pushed her head down and she decided to give you the pleasure anyway, you pick her up, turn her around and just start fucking her. Where’s the return of the favor?
It may work on some public place when she wants to show you how she still has it but those are rare events. I don’t say that there are no women who are enjoying this kind of sex because there are plenty of them, trust me; regardless of what some other type of women are claiming. But if your lady haven’t showed you this side of her, you’re having sex with more traditional one.
Although, it doesn’t mean that you can’t persuade her into doing it on some semi-pubic place where there’s a chance that someone might see you. Have you ever tried to give her oral pleasure in that same situation?
Yeah…you know what I’m talking about, don’t you. Well sport, do the same in bedroom. Take your time and finish what you’ve started. And instead of pushing her head down, just tell her that it’s bloody time that she starts returning the favors!