No and it is hard to understand why some men are trying to hide this fact from their partners. There is no a single reason to make the fool out of yourself and out of her.
In fact, watching porn together from time to time will break the routine and spark the fire inside of her. Because women are enjoying porn also.
You think it’s a bullshit? She’s telling you how disgusting it is and how she always had a hard time understanding your filthy need for it? Well that’s bullshit. Then how come 1 billion women read that BDSM shit Earl James wrote in her 50 Shades of Grey? It’s porn, nothing more. And it’s a hardcore porn to make things even better with sleazy and explicit sex scenes.
And she doesn’t even dig that BDSM stuff. How do you figure that?
Understand this: women love porn. Women masturbate more frequent than men also. You think she’s inspired by your great performances the other night? No dumbass, she is rolling the classic porn in her head or imagining having sex with some tanned and carved stranger with the dick looking more on a hose than on a dick.
So why is she persistent about disliking porn or resenting you watching porn?
The answer is two-folded. One, it’s a habit she learned from other women. Almost each and every nagged about that including her mother so she figured that she must do it too.
But that habit is derived from a sense of jealousy and selfishness in some sense, which is the second part of the answer. She can’t stand the idea of you jerking off on some other woman. And when she knows that the chick you are watching is way above her league, she gets angry.
In the same time, she loves porn.
It’s a paradox inside her head, causing the dissonance in communication between her neurons since it is hard and almost impossible to bear with two contradictory ideas waging the same importance. Having a choice — sort of speak — wreaks havoc inside our minds.
So how to deal with it?
You fucked it up if you were persistent about how you never watch the porn because why would you even bother to spend time watching that stupid thing that has nothing to do with the real sex. It’s just not your thing you claimed. And all that moaning and shit…who digs that anyway, right?
She was all proud about that and shared it with her more experienced girlfriends who then made every effort to mock her and persuade her otherwise. You were lucky she wasn’t carrying a gun when she saw you after that first session with her mates.
Come clean and play the fucking porn next time you’re with her alone on a sofa or in your bedroom. She might find it awkward first time but stay persistent and you’ll restore the resonance again. Once you achieve that, you two will come off on porn together. It’s all about sharing, isn’t it?
So share your passion with her and live through initial resistance. She will find it helpful also and stop nagging about it. And I’m willing to bet that she will initiate the idea of watching the porn from time to time.
Let’s face it: can your abs and size of dick compete with the guy fucking that chick all over the place? Are you strong enough to pick her up and fuck her brains out while holding her above the ground?
Maybe it’s time to learn something really valuable from all those porn. Maybe it’s time to carve those abs and put some strength in your arms, legs and back.
Trust me: nothing will thrill her more than your ability to lift her above your head, put her legs around your neck and lick her pussy while she is up, with her back against the wall. Your might will impress her like nothing else. After all, women dig raw power. It’s something rooted deep inside their primitive instincts.
