It’s all about the right attitude – Have you seen the Heineken’s commercial with all those women singing Bonnie Tyler’s hit:
“Where have all the good men gone
And where are all the gods?
Where’s the street-wise Hercules
To fight the rising odds?
Isn’t there a white knight upon a fiery steed?
Late at night I toss and I turn and I dream of what I need…”
In this short but powerful verse, you find the secret of what women want. You can actually hear the message. You can hear the cry. You can sense despair. You can feel the anger.
“We are sick and tired of being men,” is a simple message that ends with, “We yearn for the man with the attitude so we can get back being women once again.”
What is a man with attitude?
He is THE protector and THE provider. He is the guy who doesn’t take shit from anyone and who is always capable and willing to stand his ground no matter the cost. That attitude is best seen when you try to push him around. He will not tolerate it. He will not be bossed around or tolerate someone who’s telling him how to live his life.
A Man with that attitude knows exactly what he wants and how to get it.
And women, regardless of what they may claim, deep inside long for that man. She wants to be protected. She wants to be provided. Even though she’s a career woman, she simply must know that once she comes home, her street-wise Hercules is there for her, ready to hold her tightly so she could relax and feel safe again. She wants a man who is STRONGER than her.
Unfortunately, as time goes by, there are less and less men with that attitude. It seems like we made a mistake along the way and started to breed the race of pussies and ultimate cowards. We’ve been raising men who act more feminine than any woman. And the women get stronger and stronger. NOT a good development.
And while it may appear interesting to a young woman, to have a man with feelings and someone who’s gentle, tender and not afraid to cry, in time, she’ll grow tired of him. Because it’s against her primitive code – the one that counts.
So why women preach about how they want a “gentle man” all over the place?
Because of the pricks with no attitude who are only capable of showing some “attitude” when protected by their own four walls, beating the shit out of their women!
When outside, in the real world, that man is back to being a pussy, “fetching” like a little puppy for his boss or anyone else with the manly attitude. And then he comes home and want to compensate on his wife.
That’s not the “attitude.” That’s cowardness.
But it caused some women to start perceiving the confident man with “the attitude” – who never cries and never backs down as the potential threat. In their fear, they are acting upon wrong conclusions and end up in the arms of a pussy who seems like someone gentle and someone she can control.
And, after a while, that pussy starts suffering from serious serotonin and dopamine deprivation which causes depression and feelings of anger. But since we are talking about a man who walks the life frightened, he’ll never choose to stand up for himself. And even less for his woman. Instead, he’ll start abusing alcohol and eventually start hitting/abusing his wife.
What makes men behave like this?
That’s easy: ENVIRONMENT. They are exposed to completely wrong stimuli from the younger days. We are not claiming that everybody should or can be alpha males, but even the beta males will bite when needed. Because, there’s only one platoon leader in a battle. And yet, the rest of the platoon is spreading death all around them.
It has nothing to do with being a platoon leader. It has to with the willingness of the man to take the weapon in his hands and fight to the bitter end.
Because, it’s who we are. Born killers. But something triggers the fundamental behavioral change and instead of having another confident killer, we end up with the scum who is not capable of challenging anyone. He’s a good servant and that shit wreaks havoc in his mind. His brain is confused because this is not how he’s programmed to operate.
What can be done about it?
If you have a son, let him get into the fight. Don’t allow your wife to protect him in any way. Let him learn what it takes to rank in a society. Because, advanced as we may seem, we are still a bunch of animals – only with the light on when night falls. Turn off the light across the planet, and you’ll see what horror truly means. Lions and wolves would flee. Your boy would be one of the first to die in that kind of environment.
Why? Because you failed to prep him.
You don’t have to do anything besides teaching him with your own optimal example and allowing cuts and bruises from time to time. That’s all you should do to raise the man with the attitude and subsequent determination.
But remember: it’s you from whom he’s learning and it’s you who he’s mimicking. So set the good example.