With nearly 65% of all women unable to have an orgasm from penetration alone, it’s no wonder why women are so hesitant in the bedroom. While you might think you’re blowing her socks off – chances are, she’s not as excited as you might think. If you’re looking to blow her socks off every single time, consider these positions the next time you roll around in the sack.
- Reverse Cowgirl
In this position, lie on your back and pull your girl on top of you, so she’s straddling your member. Instead of facing your face, have her face your toes instead. This position is ideal due to easier access to clitoral stimulation. Have her grind around in circles until she finds the sweet spot and gently rub her while she rides you.
- Doggie Style
Doggie style is perfect for getting her off as she has more control of where you’re hitting. Start by having her on all fours –using her hips for control. As you get into things, allow her to lower her torso or spread her legs further apart, adjusting her body to find the gspot. What’s more, while you’re having fun, reach around and stimulate her clit with your hand or a toy (like a small bullet).
For those women who enjoy a more shallow penetration, spooning offers a gentler approach to getting her off. Spoon up behind her, with her legs bent slightly – you’ll be hitting the front of her vaginal wall, which is where majority of her nerve endings are. It also helps to create a tighter fit within the vagina, meaning less feels like much more.
- Put a Pillow Under Her – Missionary
One of the main drawbacks to missionary is it’s often hard to hit the gspot repeatedly (for an orgasm). The next time you’re having some fun, put a pillow under her ass so it’s creating a different angle of entry. By elevating her hips, you’ll have a smoother access to her gspot – but some positions can be uncomfortable for a woman – always ask what’s working for her.
- Get Her Feet Up
If you’re on top of her, it’s hard to fully get inside her vagina. To maximize your thrusting power (and her potential to get off), reposition her feet to your shoulders. By repositioning her legs, you’ll have a deeper penetration, which can help with hitting her gspot. If that position is uncomfortable, have her lift her legs to your chest or bend her knees upwards slightly.
- Reverse Missionary
Have her lie down on the bed, with her stomach flat against the mattress. Although you’ll need to lift her hips upward slightly to thrust inside her, the idea is remaining as horizontal as possible, pushing in to her with your legs, instead of your hips. The friction of the thrusting can push immense pressure on her gspot – sending her over the edge effortlessly. For added fun, have her use a small vibrator underneath her body (over her clitoris) where it remains resting between the mattress and her nether region.