As you can guess, she’s not telling you everything. Hence, you don’t really know what turns women on. Fortunately, we have good Dr. Meredith Chivers from the Queen’s University in Canada to thank for the new findings in the field of female’s sexual arousal. What they claim not to be the trigger or some turn on, is, in fact, one big fat lie.
How did Dr. Chivers prove what turns women on?
By using pretty ingenious ways to test the arousal at the male and female subjects, Dr. Chivers found something extraordinary yet, at the same time, totally logical from the perspective of our primitive instincts.
For example, male subjects had special instrument attached to their limb penis while being exposed to a series of images, spanning from heterosexual porn scenes, lesbo scenes, wildlife sex, and similar stuff.
It seems that we are turned on immediately. The simple image of a naked woman is more than enough.
The process is activated through the mechanisms in our primordial parts of brain – the ones that exist from the dawn of our species.
And it’s that part of the brain — the limbic, or the primitive brain — that ratted women out. It’s the part of our mind we cannot completely control. Thanks to that, we are able to see the real truth behind the curtain of women’s lies.
Similar to the male subjects, women who were part of the test were inserted with the dildo-like instrument with the camera in their vaginas.
The point was to measure the contractions of the uterus and the volume of moisture produced as the result of arousal.
And the findings were mind-blowing, to say the least.
Is a girl-on-girl porn what turns women on more than anything else?
While many of them won’t admit it, the instrument has recorded the automatic arousal the moment a woman was exposed to the images of two girls in a clinch. It appears that all women are bisexual on some level. They’re just controlling their urges.
It’s perhaps the reason why it’s possible to persuade a woman in a threesome with another woman!
Sure she’d be more pleased with two men roasting her from both sides simultaneously or filling both holes at the same time, but she won’t mind having another woman in bed with her.
Few drinks, good and sensual atmosphere, precise words, and there you are between, what can only be described as – the heaven.
Surprisingly enough, wildlife sex is what turns women on also!
Funny, isn’t it? Ask any woman and she’ll get upset and even consider your insinuation as the insult to all women on this planet. But the truth is out there. The research has recorded the undisputable proof of arousal in women who were exposed to the scenes of the wildlife sex.
So, not only that they are bisexual, but they also seem to be extremely kinky!
It’s that primitive part of the brain that she cannot control. The part where there’s no speech or logic. Only emotions.
She is a wildling deep inside, only she won’t admit it.
Not so long ago, we were living the same type of life the bears, lions, and wolves are still living. We were behaving in almost the same ways.
Sex is the backbone of the existence and Mother Nature made sure that woman gets turned on with the scene of any kind of sex; animals included.
But now comes the best part. The part that proves why “stay-home-dad-while-mommy-is-building-career” thing can’t fly on a long run[i1] .
A scene of a violent, forced sex is what turns women on like a magic stick!
It’s been proven beyond any reasonable doubt now – a woman gets horny when she’s watching the scene of the less aggressive rape.
Dr. Chiver decided to test something she already knew. She exposed the female subjects to series of images showing explicit acts of forced sex and rape (fictional, of course).
Every tested woman got aroused!
Which basically means that the rough sex is what turns women on most!
Again, this is something she cannot control. She’s been driven by her primitive, almost primordial instincts when men weren’t polite as they are these days. She wants to be dominated to some extent. She wants to be “forced” in an erotic way by the man she trusts.
Because that’s exactly what she’s expecting from her man. At least from time to time.
The inevitable word of caution:
We are not implying that women enjoy the forced sex in any way. Don’t confuse the primitive with the contemporary because unlike lions, we the humans can control our primordial instincts. Women are doing that all the time and while she’ll find the scene of forced sex as the potential turn on, it does not mean that she’ll enjoy the actual scene. Our imagination differs from the reality. Remember that.
So, do control yourself. That’s all we’re saying. However, do sex her up like a real man often.
Show her what it feels being taken by the real man. Show some dominance. She’ll enjoy it. But never ever enforce sex!
