I find it amusing sometimes when I realize how stupid we are. I mean men, of course. We’ll bust our ballz trying to find an excuse or justification for our poor sex life. In 99% of all cases, we blame it on our wives. It’s them who won’t put up anymore. It’s them who are too passive. It’s them who are forcing the same old fucking routine over and over again.
The prime solution, found by almost 70% of all men, is finding the new juicy cunt. That’s it. Problem solved. She can jerk off now as much as she likes while imagining that dull routine when she’s doing it (yeah, right, that’s on her mind in those moments…). You have other meat to grill now. You’ll manage to come to dinner nevertheless.
But after a while, that new juice starts rebelling.
“It’s me or she,” she issues the ultimatum. “Pick one,” she’s insisting.
Of course, 80% of all men who screw around behind their wives’ backs came out as the ultimate pussies because all those promises meant nothing at the end. He will crawl back to the woman who is, in fact, the Alpha & Omega of his life. He’ll beg if he has to. He’ll lick the dirt off her heels just to sleep along that ass again.
Sometimes it works out for the best; sometimes it doesn’t. If nothing else, the damage has been done and it cannot be fixed. Once gambled, trust is impossible to re-establish.
There are far severe consequences than gambled trust
Hundreds of men are losing their heads and joining their ancestors because of thinking with their dicks and not with their brains. It’s either a pissed off and bloodthirsty wife or a mistress. Both are seeking only one – the revenge. Because, if you really don’t want to mess with something, that’s woman’s love. When she loves, hills move.
In a desperate attempt to deal with the mess they’ve created, cheating husbands are trying to do damage control, hoping for the best.
But that won’t fly every time. The justice will be served sooner or later. If nothing else, the humiliated wife will have her revenge by sucking several cocks over the short period of time.
One way or another, the elemental group suffers the consequences.
It’s irresponsible and immature. If you can’t put up with your wife anymore, be a man and come clean about it. Don’t try to sit with one ass on two chairs because you’ll hurt few people just because you wanted to have sex. And all that time, the ass you know really well is waiting for you.
Pretty dumb, isn’t it?
But why only 70% of men are doing this? Why not all? How come it’s not a normal thing?
You got to understand that the percentage is roughly estimated judging by the past experiences, witness accounts, studies and recently leaked information from Ashley Madison. At former, around 75% of all accounts were men. Three-quarters of all married men were seeking for some casual sex. No strings attached, of course.
That’s high demand, low supply. And it speaks something to ones who are willing to put their minds into this problem.
Why is that a problem?
Because it’s messing up with the primary group – man and woman. It’s the base of our society and the sole reason behind our success as the species. The “couple” with its tremendous impact on our society is that one thing that separates us from lions and wolves.
That first monogamous group, formed in the ancient time, marked the beginning of the accelerated progress of the humankind. It’s the elemental group from which all others (the larger ones) are derived. Without it, it’s hard to believe that we’d reach the current status.
When you think about your marriage and decisive influence of your wife and children on you, you can see the logic. You can see the ‘Why’.
She’s the one that’s been pushing you to do more. Your kids are your most precious belongings and accomplishments. You’d cut your arm off for them. Nothing else can motivate a man to do more in several segments of the life. Even to take his own life if necessary. You can’t find anything that comes even close in terms of importance and motivation than this elemental group formed by you, your wife, and your children.
And for some reason, regardless of the time that has passed from that first elemental (primordial) group, we’re having a hard time keeping our marital fire. When we don’t feel the heat anymore, instead of trying to relight that fire, we are seeking for the open fireplace elsewhere.
It appears that most of us can’t control the urges.
But it’s not only about the urges. Many men just made a wrong pick. They didn’t give themselves enough time to see if it stinks when she farts. Those who didn’t make that mistake, die in old age besides their wives who, fair or not, live longer.
If we all succumb to our urges and start messing around with the elemental group, we will cause the regression of the entire species in terms of evolution, technological and societal advances, and quality of life in general.
We would fuck everything up.
So some men find solution in porns and masturbation
She won’t put out as much as you like so you make sure to have a constant access to the porns. It’s not that hard anyway. 50% of all internet space and traffic go to sex-related subjects. Today, it’s almost impossible to avoid porn.
To make things even more accessible, the average monthly memberships on decent porn sites can be found for as much as $10! For just $10 (even less in some cases) you get to see as much sex as you can handle.
So you’re back to square one. Back where you’ve started around the age of 12.
You won’t cheat because you love your wife and don’t like to complicate things more than you have to, so you’re staying out of trouble, blocking all access. She’s the woman, the mother, and the queen. No other woman comes even close. And you’re proud on that.
What the fuck is the problem?
It seems that you’re eating more shit than your colleague who’s been mooching around for last 5 years, banging everything with the heartbeat. How’s that even possible? Why doesn’t she respect your sacrifice? You could do the same as he does. The only thing you need to do is to remove the shield and allow access. There are plenty of women really interested in you.
Why can’t she see that?
What exactly does she see?
She sees a serious problem. Period.
For now, she can’t define the cause nor the source but she’s suspecting that you’ve been fooling around behind her back for quite some time now. Why else would you be having a hard time getting your hard on lately?
It’s been several months since you two had a streak of quality sexual encounters. She can’t even remember when was the last time you fucked her brains out few days in a role.
So she suspects.
Pretty soon, you’re under the surveillance.
Your every move is monitored, analyzed and conclusions are being derived at the speed of the light. There’s something fishy going on, only she doesn’t know what it is. Not yet anyway. But she’ll find out. She always does.
And she’s getting sick and tired of your excuses or the fact that you’ll use the offense to defend your low output. She’s the woman with needs and she’ll find the way to indulge her urges. If you don’t want a piece of that ass, there are three guys at least who would kill just to get near it.
And then you’re in trouble.
One wrong look or a word or a quick chat with some woman and you’re fucked. Days will pass before you talk some sense into her. She’ll drive you mad 24/7 and you’ll start thinking about the exit strategy. Divorce is the only way from this hellhole that you found yourself into.
Is it really? Or are you doing something wrong?
It’s easy to derive the wrong conclusion in our age because we are all overwhelmed with our work and other responsibilities.
Well, my friend, as you’ll see, the one thing you recognized as the viable solution is, in fact, the one thing that’s been causing all that mess.
Porns and masturbation have negative impact in both physical and psychological way if not used smart!
You’re not that young anymore and it takes time for your dick to restart and for your ballz to reproduce sperm.
While you were younger, it was optimal for you to jerk off a couple of hours before you have sex with your wife because you could endure longer.
But now, after 10, 15 or more years of marriage, when kids are fully grown and you’re marching to your 50s or 60s, things are different.
Your body needs more from you. It demands increased activity in form of some intensive cardio and HIIT training on daily basis. It yearns for quality and balanced food because your stomach acid is not that strong anymore (grey hair is the first indicator of the weakening of your stomach acid.) An excessive amount of fat all around your body is taking its toll in form of the extra blood it needs which fucks around with your blood pressure.
And on top of that, you’re jerking off a couple of times per week.
When the time comes to fool around with your wife, you simply can’t force yourself to even think about sex. Imaging other women doesn’t do the trick also. You simply can’t get your hard on and as the result, you’re sending the wrong signals to her.
She thinks about two possible reasons: 1) you don’t find her attractive anymore, or 2) you’ve been fucking someone else.
But that’s only the physical consequence of all those porns and masturbation.
Porns are fucking with your mind also
You’re exposed to all those pro’s, doing all sorts of stuff to men. She’s swallowing, gauging, choking, allowing the ass fuck, walking naked all over the fucking place, sucking your dick while you’re driving on a freeway, putting out in the middle of the forest or on some public place and all sorts of imaginable or even hard to imagine things she’s willing to do to you and for you.
Only, she’s not doing that to you. Your mirror neurons are playing with you.
The only reason why you can jerk off on some porn is that your mirror neurons allow you to experience some activity you’ve witnessed as it has been performed by you personally. That guy’s experience is becoming your experience, regardless of the fact that you’ve been watching the record on the screen of your laptop.
It’s the way our brains operate.
Mirror neurons are allowing us to feel excitement when our favorite team is winning or when our sons and daughters accomplish something extraordinary. Or we can feel the sadness when we see our wives crying.
Let’s not forget that all those ladies you’ve been watching from the teenage times are extremely artificial, wearing tons of makeup and making sure to look astonishing because that’s what she does for a living. She looks good and keeps herself in a great shape. No kids, no jobs, only sex on the set.
And then, after exposing your brain to all those images of staged sex, you get behind your wife.
There she is, covered with the blanket, not wearing any makeup and demands at least 20 minutes of foreplay. What the fuck is that all about? The ladies you’re seeing are getting into the action immediately. One look and her panties are out of the picture. Your dick is in her mouth the moment she sees you.
Again, it’s not your dick, dumbass. Remember that. Your brain is playing with you. You’re not thinking clearly.
The only solution
STEP 1 – Stop watching porns for a period of at least 3 weeks. Even better, stop watching porns for good. No, no, no, strike that. Sorry.
STEP 2 – Stop jerking off for a week. Leave it a rest.
STEP 3 – Come clean to your wife. Explain the main problem and add chronic lack of stamina and possible obesity issue to the case. You’ll calm her down for a starter but you’ll do something else simultaneously – she will once again have something to fix!
Don’t be surprised when (not if but when) she meets you wearing some extremely sexy underwear. Don’t be surprised when she starts sucking your dick all over the place. Don’t be surprised when she band over the counter and stick your dick with her own hand in the middle of the day, out of nowhere.
She’s happy once again. Play along and you’ll fix the sex issue once and for all before it fucks you up entirely. And you two will live happily ever after.
